Ladies, prepare to be deluged with more suitors than you
ever dreamed possible! The Internet is still male-dominated,
and this time, that's to your advantage!
Certain facts about men and women are not going to change,
and that most men will look first for a pretty face,
is one of them. So, if you are looking for a man who
is interested in YOU...your mind, heart and spirit,
in addition to your gorgeous mug, then your ad
must be crafted to attract the type of man you seek.
Take a look at this example of a real
personal ad which garnered several hundred
responses in a few short months. Several hundred responses,
MOST of whom the writer considered 'qualified'.... happy,
fit, intelligent, emotionally mature, spiritual, consciously-aware
professionals...exactly what she wanted. Notice that
she described herself first. Knowing that compatibility
is essential to successful relationships, she then described
a man with a personaility profile similar to hers.
who are you and what do you want? Think about it. Make
a list of everything that is important to you. This
may take some time, but time worth spending. A few hours,
days or even weeks is but a mere blip in the overall
scheme of things when compared to spending years in
misery with an incompatible man, or a lifetime with
your soulmate. Opt for the latter and do your homework!
you are ready to write your personal ad. Create
a 'grabber', a single line, designed to attract attention
to your ad. Avoid the typical, mundane 'DWF, 44, seeks
partner'....you and four million others fit this description.
Humour works well. Scan other ads and see which
ones attract your attention.
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