Are
You Ready for True Love?
Have
you ever thought 'This is THE one for me' and discovered
sometime later you couldn't bear the thought of staying
with him or her a moment longer? Has this happened more
than once? Do you want to stop the heartbreak cycle? Do
you want to meet your soulmate and enjoy a lifetime of
lasting love? If you answered 'yes' to the questions above,
get ready to change your life!
Love
doesn't just happen, we make it happen through physical,
emotional and intellectual choices. Operate on only one
or two of those levels, and risk failure. Racing hearts
and raging hormones may spark a relationship, but they
don't keep fires burning. When we incorporate our whole
beings, and put 'thought' into love, we increase our chances
of loving success!
Knowing
how to choose a partner wisely is largely determined by
how well you know yourself. Start by asking yourself the
following questions. Who am I? What do I want? Write your
answers down. Take your time, be thorough. An hour, day,
week or month is small price to pay for true love. Make
a list of your personality traits, interests and hobbies,
health practices, entertainment preferences, educational
background, philisophical attitudes, professional and
financial goals. Do the same for your 'perfect partner'.
Outline 'must have's', 'nice to have's' and just as important,
what you may not like but are willing to overlook and
accept.
Gaining
perspective in this way, you will make better choices.
Go for it! Find the soulmate you seek and make love happen!
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