Responding
to Womens' Ads
1)
SAY SOMETHING! The
following Email was chuckled at and hit the bin in record
time. 'Hi, my name is Sparky. I like your attitude. Tell
me more.' Go beyond standard bar 'pick-up' lines.
2)
SPEAK TO HER DIRECTLY.Some
men craft a single e.mail query, and send it to numerous
women. 'Form letter' recipients are usually unimpressed
by lack of effort, and you probably won't hear back from
them. Speak directly to what she said in her ad. Note
and compliment what you thought interesting, funny or
entertaining. Tell her if you feel you meet all her 'qualifications'
and why.
3)
MORE INFORMATION. Share
more personal information about yourself than contained
in your ad.
4)
MAILBOX NUMBER.
Include your personal ad mailbox number so she can check
out your description, mug and voice. She'll respond that
much sooner!
5)
BE PATIENT AND PERSISTENT.Women
lead busy lives! She might be out of town, her ISP server
down, the computer crashed, or snowed under by kids and
business paperwork for a week after you write. Wait awhile,
then write back, mention your first e.mail, and include
the fact that you are really interested in her.
6)
BE POLITE and POSITIVE.Another
winner...'Hi, my name is Bob. Write back if you're not
a liar or a thief'. Our recipient prefered to be considered
a liar AND a thief than respond to this negative approach.
7)
GOOD WISHES.
A closing statement which conveys best wishes for happiness
whether she chooses to respond to your e.mail or not,
speaks volumes about the sender. It may be the one nice
thing she has heard all day, and enough to generate a
response for you!
There are
lots of kind, caring, loving and beautiful women out
there, and one of them is waiting just for you! Best
of luck and good wishes on your search, guys.
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