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"Don't place an ad on the internet until you've checked with this site!"

Why Place an Ad on the Internet?

Internet Dating is achieving wild popularity amongst net-wise singles, and for good reason. Placing a personal ad is free, requires little effort and quickly yields numerous responses. During a "first date" or cyber-introduction, there's no need to wash the chariot, trim the locks, don the finery, or plunk down bags of gold for an impressive feast. Come simply as you are, right now, and start sharing yourself, mind to mind, heart to heart, and find the soulmate you seek.

There are literally millions of singles seeking partners via the Net. If you are able to travel the planet freely in search of your soulmate, you may choose to conduct a global search. You may also spend MONTHS reading all those ads! Or, you can restrict your search to your hometown and meet someone in person sooner. Do you want to meet a flaxen-haired, 27 year old female of Russian heritage in Remuera, New Zealand? PlugIn your Preferences and start perusing those photos! Too restrictive and you limit your options. Thirty-five year old, Jamaican astronauts in Queenstown are difficult to locate, full stop. Perhaps you'll find an Olympic bobsledteam member there instead. It doesn't hurt to look!

One advantage to Registering with NZFriendFinder is the opportunity to learn much about a person before meeting face-to-face. How do they present themselves in writing? Is he articulate, interesting, charming, knowledgeable and courteous? Does she sound as lovely as she looks? Deep, intimate and lasting friendships may be formed when mind-to-mind, heart-to-heart and soul-to-soul connections are established before meeting in person.

If a man e.mails you volumes of heartfelt prose and poetry everyday for two or three months, chances are he's interested in more than a casual affair. He may also be unemployed with too much unproductive time on his hands, or be afraid of making a more concrete connection. Ask questions and trust your intuition. Written exchange also allows you to 'look before you leap' into the physical realm and may limit the possibility of proceeding with haste when lust overwhelms rational thought.

Pictures are worth a thousand words. Add a Photo and/or a voice sample and get noticed! Many members use the 'photos only' option to search, and your ad may be overlooked by Mr. or Ms. Right if your picture is not on file. You may upload a photo, or mail it in for scanning. Either option is free. He'll want to know what you look like, and better that he finds out sooner than later that you truly are as gorgeous as you say. If she's a mountain-biking, rock-climbing, ski-racing athlete looking for same, she won't waste your time and encourage disappointment when she sees you are a member of the 'high-cholesterol eat-three-large-pizzas-a-day' gourmet club. You WILL attract the lady who wants to join your club though! Be proud of who you are and show yourself!

Sounds easy, right? It is, but there are a few things to consider before rushing off to place your ad. Demographic polls indicate that men significantly outnumber women online. Men's ads should be written to stand out amongst the competition and get attention! Women's ads must specify qualities and attributes sought, or risk generating more mail than there is time in a day to read, let alone time to respond to. Read 'How to Write Effective Personal Ads and Email' for men and for women to get responses and meet the person of your dreams sooner.




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