Place an Ad on the Internet?
Dating is achieving wild popularity amongst net-wise singles,
and for good reason. Placing a personal ad is free, requires
little effort and quickly yields numerous responses. During
a "first date" or cyber-introduction, there's no need
to wash the chariot, trim the locks, don the finery, or
plunk down bags of gold for an impressive feast. Come
simply as you are, right now, and start sharing yourself,
mind to mind, heart to heart, and find the soulmate you
are literally millions of singles seeking partners via
the Net. If you are able to travel the planet freely in
search of your soulmate, you may choose to conduct a global
search. You may also spend MONTHS reading all those ads!
Or, you can restrict your search to your hometown and
meet someone in person sooner. Do you want to meet a flaxen-haired,
27 year old female of Russian heritage in Remuera, New Zealand?
PlugIn your Preferences and start perusing those
photos! Too restrictive and you limit your options. Thirty-five
year old, Jamaican astronauts in Queenstown are difficult to
locate, full stop. Perhaps you'll find an Olympic bobsledteam
member there instead. It doesn't hurt to look!
to Registering with NZFriendFinder is the opportunity to learn much
about a person before meeting face-to-face. How do they
present themselves in writing? Is he articulate, interesting,
charming, knowledgeable and courteous? Does she sound
as lovely as she looks? Deep, intimate and lasting friendships
may be formed when mind-to-mind, heart-to-heart and soul-to-soul
connections are established before meeting in person.
a man e.mails you volumes of heartfelt prose and poetry
everyday for two or three months, chances are he's interested
in more than a casual affair. He may also be unemployed
with too much unproductive time on his hands, or be afraid
of making a more concrete connection. Ask questions and
trust your intuition. Written exchange also allows you
to 'look before you leap' into the physical realm and
may limit the possibility of proceeding with haste when
lust overwhelms rational thought.
are worth a thousand words. Add a Photo and/or a voice sample and get noticed!
Many members use the 'photos only' option to search, and
your ad may be overlooked by Mr. or Ms. Right if your
picture is not on file. You may upload a photo, or mail
it in for scanning. Either option is free. He'll want
to know what you look like, and better that he finds out
sooner than later that you truly are as gorgeous as you
say. If she's a mountain-biking, rock-climbing, ski-racing
athlete looking for same, she won't waste your time and
encourage disappointment when she sees you are a member
of the 'high-cholesterol eat-three-large-pizzas-a-day'
gourmet club. You WILL attract the lady who wants to join
your club though! Be proud of who you are and show yourself!
easy, right? It is, but there are a few things to consider
before rushing off to place your ad. Demographic polls
indicate that men significantly outnumber women online.
Men's ads should be written to stand out amongst the
competition and get attention! Women's ads must specify
qualities and attributes sought, or risk generating
more mail than there is time in a day to read, let alone
time to respond to. Read 'How to
Write Effective Personal Ads and Email' for
to get responses and meet the person of your dreams